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11/29/2024 09:59:28 AM

Nov29

11/29/2024 09:55:13 AM

Nov29

This Shabbat Shalom is sponsored by
Allan & Lorraine Sheps in memory of Allan's father Samuel Sheps
&
Manya Gilbert and family in memory of Manya's husband Jerry Gilbert
on his 9th yahrzeit

&
Rebecca Golosky and Elaine and Gerry in memory of Rebecca's husband Albert (Bugsy) Golosky

November 30, 2024

29 Heshvan 5785

Shabbat Mevarhim - Mahar Hodesh

Rosh Hodesh Kislev begins the evening of Saturday, November 30 and ends
the evening of Monday, December 2, 2024.

SHABBAT SERVICES 

(November 30)

Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...4:15PM

No Kabbalat Shabbat services until further notice

WEEKDAY SERVICES

(December 1 to 6)

Sunday Morning...8:30AM

Monday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM

Sunday Evening...5:00PM *Note time
Monday to Thursday Evenings...7:00PM

 LIVESTREAM

https://livemedia.biz/BethDavid.html

🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 4:24PM

 Shabbat Ends: 5:24PM 🕯

Parashat  Toldot

Torah: Genesis  27:28-28:9 (p. 157)    Maftir: Genesis 28:7-28:9  (p. 161)
Haftarah: I Samuel 20:18-42 | Shabbat Mahar Hodesh (p. 1216)

 Upcoming Shabbat Morning Experiences 

December 7: Two Simultaneous Minyanim  

  1. Service “k’regil” (in the usual manner) in the Sanctuary, beginning at 9 am.
  2.  קשר/Kesher (Connection) Minyan in the Sisterhood Hall, beginning at 9 am,
    led by Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell. The Kesher Minyan will follow the
    general structure of the morning service but will include song, silence, prayer, mindfulness, an opportunity to go outside, as well as study and discussion on the parashah (no Torah reading).

Please spread the word to anyone who may be interested in this
special Shabbat experience! 

After services we will join together for a Kiddush Lunch which will include a special text learningdiscussion led by Rabbi Jordan. 

December 14: Special Guest Darshanit

Sharon Zohar, will speak during the main sanctuary service about the collection of poetry she recently edited that explores our post-October world. 

SHABBAT SPONSORSHIPS
Havdallah is sponsored by Elaine & Paul and children and grandchildren
in memory of  Jean Mahl

🏵
Seudah Shlisheet is sponsored by Ava Weinberger Cross
in memory of her beloved mother Sophie Weinberger

Message from Rabbi Philip Scheim

Toldot

As was her custom on Thursday nights, Shmerl’s wife was preparing the Shabbes meals. This night, however, something was wrong. She turned to her husband and said, “Shmerl, something isn’t right with this chicken. It doesn’t look right. I’m going to throw it out and cook another one.”

Shmerl offers another suggestion. “You know dear, instead of throwing it out, Beryl doesn’t have very much money. He can’t afford to buy a chicken for Shabbes. Let’s give him this chicken. That way, it won’t go to waste, and we’ll do a mitzvah.”

And so, they do. Next morning, Shabbes, in shul, Shmerl sees that Beryl isn’t there. He asks around and learns that Beryl is home, very sick. Shmerl comes home from shul, tells his wife that Beryl is sick, and announces his intention to visit him. “You know, he tells her, bikkur holim, visiting the sick is a very big mitzvah.” He visits Beryl, finds him suffering a severe stomach disorder, and returns home.

Next Shabbes, Shmerl returns to shul, and again, Beryl isn’t there. He inquires and learns that Beryl has died.  After services, he returns home, tells his wife, and announces his attention to attend the funeral the next day.  “You know, halvayas ha-meys, attending the funeral, it’s a very big mitzvah.”

After the funeral, he says to his wife, “Let’s go to Beryl’s house to pay a shivah visit. You know, nihum aveylim, comforting the bereaved is a great mitzvah.” They make the visit. Upon leaving the house, Shmerl turns to his wife and says, “You know dear, it’s amazing! From one lousy chicken, four mitzvos!” 

Too many supposed acts of friendship are motivated by the doer’s self-interest. Shmerl derives satisfaction from the mitzvot he can fulfill at Beryl’s expense, satisfaction that Beryl’s untimely demise does nothing to dispel. 

Pirkei Avot (5:16) teaches: “Any friendship without ulterior motive, will never come to an end.” Example: the friendship between David and Jonathan, the Haftarah read this Shabbat, a friendship all the more remarkable in light of the hatred of Jonathan’s father, Saul, for David, a pathological hatred that sought David’s destruction, at the very time that Jonathan vowed to protect his friend no  matter what the personal cost. 

Jonathan, in our Haftarah, reaffirms his love for David by warning David of Saul’s plans to kill him. The friendship pact between David and Jonathan at the conclusion of our Haftarah, spoken in tearful embrace, cements their friendship into eternity: “The Lord shall be between me and you, between my descendants and yours, forever.” Theirs was a relationship typified by unhesitating acts of self-sacrifice for the good of the friend, and sometimes, as in Jonathan’s case, for the good of the nation.

The eleventh-century Hebrew poet and philosopher Solomon ibn Gabirol, shared the following, “A wise man was asked, ‘Whom would you love more, your brother or your friend?’ He answered, ‘I will not love my brother until he becomes my friend.’ ” 

Shabbat Shalom, 
Rabbi Philip Scheim

We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.

Saturday, November 30 • 29 Heshvan
Hymie Applebaum,
Father of Bryan Applebaum
Natasha Barer,
Cousin of Brenda Kaman
Sadie Black,
Grandmother of Janice Goldmintz
Rebecca Huberman,
Mother of Rae Goodman and Grandmother of Anne Goodman-Cuttler
Julia Klein,
Mother of Sue Smith
Sidney Levitt,
Brother of Belle Yaphe
Murray Lieberman,
Father of David Lieberman and Steven Lieberman
Menahim Solomon,
Father of Ann Samson and Grandfather of Fleur Samson
 
Sunday, Dec 01 • 30 Heshvan
Jerry Gilbert,
Husband of Manya Gilbert
 
Monday, Dec 02 • 1 Kislev
Rae (Rachel) Astroff (Ostrovsky),
Mother of Howard Astroff
Sarah Shevah Goldstein,
Mother-In-Law of Jerry Rosenbloom
Sheila Klarman,
Mother of Judith Klarman Carol Klarman
Harry Kliaman,
Friend of Beth David
Harvey Pacter,
Father of Michael Pacter
David Starr,
Father of Rita Drutz
Bernard Tugg,
Uncle of Greg Tugg
 
Tuesday, Dec 03 • 2 Kislev
Fanny Bukmuz,
Mother of Rica Berger and Nadine Bukmuz
Albert Golosky,
Husband of Rebecca Golosky
Jennie Lipson,
Grandmother of Richard Friedman
Rhoda Helen Pappenheim,
Aunt of Beverley Spagat
Carl Rotman,
Husband of Donna Rotman
Samuel Sheps,
Father of Allan Sheps and Father-in-law of Elaine Rumanek
 
Wednesday, Dec 04 • 3 Kislev
Minnie Gold,
Mother of Joe Gold
Max Goldsman,
Friend of Beth David
Mary Lubek,
Mother of Marvyn Lubek
Joseph Lubek,
Father of Marvyn Lubek
Ethel Shulman,
Sister-In-Law of Bertram Shinwell
 
Thursday, Dec 05 •  4 Kislev
Harry Clayman,
Father of Frances Winer
Cheryl Ann Federman,
Daughter of Alan Federman
Rose Freedman,
Friend of Beth David
Eli Kabatznik,
Grandfather of Beverley Spagat
Zelda Marshall,
Friend of Beth David
Dina Oppenheimer,
Mother of Harold Oppenheimer
Dora Swartz,
Mother of Howard Swartz
Sophie Weinberger,
Mother of Ava Cross
Ruth Weiner,
Mother of Jerry Weiner
 
Friday, Dec 06 •  5 Kislev
Samuel Joshua Berman,
Father of Wendy Berman and Corinne Berman
Helen Feigen,
Mother of Eleanor Weinberg and Grandmother of Brenda Dimitry
Leo Jacobson,
Uncle of Marion Tully
Gershon Naftolin,
Grandfather of Paula Sonshine
Yosipha Wise,
Friend of Beth David

Weekday Minyanim

BREAKFAST SPONSORS 

Monday, December 2
Chaim Birbrager marking the end of the Kaddish recitation for his mother,
Shirley Birbrager

Wednesday, December 4
The Lubek family in memory of Marvyn's parents Mary Lubek and Joe Lubek

PLEASE HELP KEEP OUR MORNING and EVENING MINYANIM VIABLE.

 

 

Those of you who have come to say kaddish either for a yahrzeit or during the 30 days or 11 months know how meaningful it is to perform this act with the support of your own community and congregation.
Thank you for taking on this important responsibility.

 

 

'Kol Yisrael areivim ze lazeh!
All the people of Israel are responsible for one another.'

SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITES

 Click online here or contact Faye at 437-770-2302

To be included in the Shabbat Shalom, sponsorship requests must be received by Tuesday at noon of the week before the sponsorship date.
℘℘℘℘

Dedicate a Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Book   $90
Shabbat morning Kiddush  $500.00 | Seudah Shlisheet  $400 | Weekday Breakfast $250

Weekday Afternoon/Evening Minyan  $36 Saturday Evening Havdallah  $36
      Weekday Morning Minyan  $54 | Friday Afternoon Kabbalat Shabbat  $100 
Shabbat Shalom newsletter  $100 | Events & Opportunities newsletter  $100
Shabbat morning Livestream Service  $100 | Clergy Classes $100 for per session

CONTACT THE SHUL

Staff

Morah Fenning, Interim Executive Director
416-633-5500 ext. 22   morah@bethdavid.com  

Faye Major, Administrator
416-633-5500 ext. 0 (office) or 437-770-2302 (mobile)   faye@bethdavid.com

Helene Jacobs, Administrator
437-770-2756   helene@bethdavid.com

Jeev Logan, Finance Manager
437-771-1606   jeev@bethdavid.com

Thanuja Perera, Bookkeeper
thanuja@bethdavid.com

Clergy

Philip S. Scheim, Rabbi Emeritus 
rabbischeim@bethdavid.com

Marshall Loomer, Rabbi Cantor
cantor@bethdavid.com

Jordan Bendat-Appell, Rabbi
rabbijordan@bethdavid.com

Michael Rubin Director of Engagement, Education & Ritual 
mrubin@bethdavid.com

 

11/22/2024 08:17:30 AM

Nov22

This Shabbat Shalom is sponsored
By Sharon & Ken Fuller in memory of Sharon's brother Michael Mandel
&
In memory of Helen Lax, mother of Arlene Lax and Sharon Lax and Esther Foorer and mother-in-law of Leonard Vanek and Benjamin Foorer
&
By Synthia & Gary Goldfarb in memory of Synthia's father Fred Fink
November 23, 2024
22 Heshvan 5785
SHABBAT SERVICES 
(November 23)
Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...4:15PM
📌Until further notice, there will be no Kabbalat Shabbat services - please see 
Michael Rubin's message 
WEEKDAY SERVICES
(November 24 to 29)
Sunday Morning...8:30AM
Monday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM
Sunday Evening...5:00PM
Monday to Thursday Evenings...7:00PM
 
 
✡ מזל טוב ✡
Mazal Tov to Alannah Lax-Vanek & Sam Paisley on the naming of their daughter.
🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 4:28PM
 Shabbat Ends: 5:27PM 🕯
Parashat Hayei Sara
Torah: Genesis 24:53-25:18  (p.137)    Maftir: Genesis 25:16-25:18  (p.141)
Haftarah: I Kings 1:1-31  (p.143)
UPCOMING SHABBAT MORNING EXPERIENCES
Registration is preferred (for purposes of planning) but not required
Rabbi Bendat-Appell: Saturday, December 7 Parashat Vayeitze  
"
I’ll be back after a good night’s sleep!!!!" 
 
🖱Click here to register.
 
Rabbi Cantor Loomer:  Saturday, January 11 Parashat Vayechi  
"Jacob planned his own funeral??" 
 
🖱Click here to register.
SHABBAT SPONSORSHIPS
Kiddush this morning is sponsored by Arlene Lax & Leonard Vanek in honour of
the naming of their granddaughter
Havdallah is sponsored by
Synthia & Gary Goldfarb in memory of Synthia's father Fred Fink
&
Sam, David and Mike Cohen in memory of their mother Louise Cohen
Message from Michael Rubin
Three Times Daily? Every Day?!
Continuing with the narrative of Abraham and Isaac in Hayei Sarah and only one week away from encountering Ya’akov, we might consider the tradition of prayer associated with each of the Patriarchs; Abraham - Shacharit, Isaac – Mincha, Ya’akov – Ma’ariv (as per the Talmud, tractate B’rachot 26b, based on the respective personalities of those three and their specific experiences.)
There is an expected excitement and enthusiasm when you might be the one initiating a new method of attempting to encounter the Divine through regular, routine prayer before it has become convention and habit. I wonder if the anachronistic association of each of the daily liturgical experience was one in which the Patriarchs engaged daily or according to circumstances and mood.
We speak of our striving to maintain that daily routine in order to be prepared for those all too rare occasions on which we might experience the enthusiasm and spirituality attributed to our ancestors. This is a big ask in today’s world with the distractions and multiplicity of activities in which we engage every day.
As you are all aware, it has become no small challenge to achieve a minyan every morning and every evening here at Beth David and we are not alone in this. And although it is a small group of resolute members who do their best to ensure the presence of that preferred quorum, there are many more who express disappointment when we occasionally announce that we may be discontinuing some of those daily minyanim. Some of those expressions even extend to lament and despair as yet another indication of the imminent collapse of our community.
This is far from our reality. We should be grateful that we have people who demonstrate the dedication to lead our community, to plan and implement engaging and relevant programs, to care for those who require support of whatever nature, and to be present for a daily minyan as often as possible. We should be proud of all the things we do well.
We should not be despondent about those tasks and goals which we are not always able to realize. And we can strive to find ways to do them better and more consistently as we view our community as a work in progress, constantly adjusting to circumstances and our changing membership demographics.
All this is my way of explaining that when we temporarily cancel the weekly Kabbalat Shabbat minyan because we are not able to gather enough attendees during the winter months when it is a challenge for most members to attend a service at 4:30 pm on a Friday afternoon, it is far from a disaster or portending of community disintegration. If our congregation makes the decision with their feet that this minyan, whether in the winter or on a weekly basis, is not a priority, so be it. There are so many other ways to demonstrate vitality, relevance and caring.
We do not need to attempt to be everything to everyone at all times. There is no need to preserve as our mantra or mission statement that without a minyan every day and evening, we are not doing what we must to be considered a sustainable and dependable community. Let us focus on what we do successfully and ensure that we constantly seek to do all that even better.
Whether or not Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob were the initiators of the daily services in whatever form, I do not know. What I would imagine, and as indicated in the narrative, is that they all, as well as the Matriarchs, found meaningful ways to encounter the Divine on occasion -not daily, with life getting in the way- and sought to focus on those activities which they did well, and which offered them satisfaction. Of course, they all failed in various endeavours, which is no small reason for our love for them and inclination to identify with them.
Let us be as forgiving and loving of ourselves and our community.
Shabbat Shalom,
Michael Rubin
We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.
Saturday, November 23 • 22 Heshvan
Fredric Herrold Fink,
Father of Synthia Goldfarb
Jacob Green,
Uncle of Sheila Kornblum
Sylvia Kane,
Mother of Brenda Kane-Cipin
Helen Lax,
Mother of Arlene Lax
Chayim Lax,
Father-In-Law of Millie (Mildred) Lax
Allan (Andy) Schwartz,
Brother of Beverley Spagat
Myer Sokoloff,
Father-in-law of Anne Sokoloff
 
Sunday, November 24 • 23 Heshvan
Louise Cohen,
Mother of Sam Cohen and Mike Cohen
Georgina Daurio,
Mother of Glenn Daurio
Aaron Kates,
Father of Arthur Kates
Neil Koven,
Brother of Cheryl Rudolph
Michael Mandel,
Brother of Sharon Fuller
Clarence Rosenhek,
Father of Jack Rosenhek
Dorothy Rubin,
Grandmother of Michael Rubin and David Rubin
Eli Schwartz,
Father of Hyman Schwartz
Estelle Young,
Friend of Beth David
 
Monday, November 25 •  24 Heshvan
Ruth Bitnun,
Mother of Ari Bitnun
Dora Brown,
Mother of Anna Bloom
Goldie Cross,
Mother of Trudy Appleby
David Cross,
Father of Trudy Appleby
Bert Deltoff,
Uncle of Janice Goldmintz
Rose Horwich,
Mother of Wilfred Horwich
Abraham Marshall,
Friend of Beth David
Sol Morris,
Father of Phillip Morris
Sam Wolfe Silver,
Brother in law of Ruth Silver
Louis Swartz,
Father of Howard Swartz
Samuel Tytel,
Father of Honey Wise
Rhoda Welt,
Sister of Manuel Litwin
 
Tuesday, November 26 • 25 Heshvan  5723
James Ephraim Black,
Father-In-Law of Bette-Lou Black
Levi Brodbaker,
Uncle of Freda Brodbaker
Sara Cohen,
Mother of Donna Morris
Mary Feldman,
Mother of Esther Altman
Ethel Levine,
Grandmother of Carol Manilla
Ann Lexchin,
Mother of Larry Lexchin
Philip Moscoe,
Father of David Moscoe
Emanuel Schimmer,
Father of Bernard Schimmer
Fred Sherman,
Father of Arlene Potashner
Abby J. Sone,
Father of Marshall Sone
 
Wednesday, November 27 •  26 Heshvan
Nathan Bukmuz,
Father of Rica Berger and Nadine Bukmuz
Marilyn Goody,
Friend of Beth David
Mary Hain,
Mother of Judy Hain-Cohen
Miriam Wagman,
Grandmother of Lawrence Manilla
 
Thursday, November 28 • 27 Heshvan
Barbara Feld,
Mother of Lisa Feld
Diane Gillman,
Mother of Barry Smith
Esther Goldfluss,
Grandmother of Esther Bortnick
Sabina Zofia Korman,
Mother of Ita Pechenick
Jean Mahl,
Mother of Elaine Gudofsky
Ann Moran,
Sister of Marilyn Swartz
Alice Telio,
Friend of Beth David
Sydney Weiner,
Father of Jerry Weiner
 
Friday, November 29 • 28 Heshvan
Oscar Bender,
Father of Lynda Weinberg
Avraham Goldberg,
Grandfather of Hennie Elkind
Solomon Goldberg,
Father of David Goldberg
Edna Haniford,
Mother of Sharon Haniford
Ernest Rosenblat,
Father of Rob Rosenblat
Philip Swartz,
Father of Maris Berk
Doris Wiseman,
Aunt of Philip Scheim
Weekday Minyanim
BREAKFAST SPONSORS 
Monday, November 25
Annette Faynwachs & Eric Engel in honour of their son Chad becoming Bar Mitzvah
PLEASE HELP KEEP OUR MORNING and EVENING MINYANIM VIABLE.
 
 
Those of you who have come to say kaddish either for a yahrzeit or during the 30 days or 11 months know how meaningful it is to perform this act with the support of your own community and congregation.
Thank you for taking on this important responsibility.
 
 
'Kol Yisrael areivim ze lazeh!
All the people of Israel are responsible for one another.'
SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITES
 Click online here or contact Faye at 437-770-2302
To be included in the Shabbat Shalom, sponsorship requests must be received by Tuesday at noon of the week before the sponsorship date.
℘℘℘℘
Dedicate a Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Book   $90
Shabbat morning Kiddush  $500.00 | Seudah Shlisheet  $400 | Weekday Breakfast $250
Weekday Afternoon/Evening Minyan  $36 Saturday Evening Havdallah  $36
      Weekday Morning Minyan  $54 | Friday Afternoon Kabbalat Shabbat  $100 
Shabbat Shalom newsletter  $100 | Events & Opportunities newsletter  $100
Shabbat morning Livestream Service  $100 | Clergy Classes $100 for per session
CONTACT THE SHUL
Staff
Morah Fenning, Interim Executive Director
416-633-5500 ext. 22   morah@bethdavid.com  
Faye Major, Administrator
416-633-5500 ext. 0 (office) or 437-770-2302 (mobile)   faye@bethdavid.com
Helene Jacobs, Administrator
437-770-2756   helene@bethdavid.com
Jeev Logan, Finance Manager
437-771-1606   jeev@bethdavid.com
Thanuja Perera, Bookkeeper
thanuja@bethdavid.com
Clergy
Philip S. Scheim, Rabbi Emeritus 
rabbischeim@bethdavid.com
Marshall Loomer, Rabbi Cantor
cantor@bethdavid.com
Jordan Bendat-Appell, Rabbi
rabbijordan@bethdavid.com
Michael Rubin Director of Engagement, Education & Ritual 
mrubin@bethdavid.com

11/08/2024 11:38:16 AM

Nov8

11/08/2024 11:16:27 AM

Nov8

This Shabbat Shalom is sponsored by Brenda & David Dimitry in honour of their 50th wedding anniversary
✡ מזל טוב ✡
Mazal Tov to Arlen Ekstein and Jadran MacLeod in honour of their aufruf on
Thursday November 14 for their upcoming marriage
 
November 9, 2024
8 Heshvan 5785
SHABBAT SERVICES 

(November 8 & 9)
Friday Kabbalat Shabbat.....4:30PM
Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...4:15PM
WEEKDAY SERVICES

(November 10 to 15)
Sunday Morning...8:30AM
Monday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM
Sunday to Thursday Evenings...7:00PM
Shabbat & Weekday LIVESTREAM
🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 4:40PM
 Shabbat Ends: 5:40PM 🕯
 Parashat Lech-Lecha
Torah: Genesis16:1-17:27  (p. 86)    Maftir: Genesis 17:24-17:27  (p. 93)
Haftarah: Isaiah 40:27-41:16 (p. 95)
Kiddush this morning is sponsored by Ian Hendry in honour of Karen's 67th birthday
JOIN US FOR SOME DIFFERENT SHABBAT MORNING EXPERIENCES.
Registration is preferred (for purposes of planning) but not required
NEXT SHABBAT
Michael Rubin: Saturday, November 16 - Parashat Vayera
Shabbat of Davening, Deliberating, and Dining!
◊ All in the Ganz Family Social Hall ◊
We will sit facing each other at round tables as we explore aspects of the morning service, weekly portion and kiddush!
Some of the questions from this morning's Parashah to be considered are:
• Do I need to buy a plot
• Who will be next to whom?
• What should I put on the Matzevah?
(Yes, you’re right! It sounds like the following week’s Parashah!)
🖱Click here to register.
Note: Because of the location of this morning service, there will be NO livestream.
UPCOMING SHABBAT MORNING EXPERIENCES
Rabbi Bendat-Appell: Saturday, December 7 Parashat Vayeitze  "I’ll be back after a good night’s sleep!!!!" 🖱Click here to register.
 
Rabbi Cantor Loomer:  Saturday, January 11 Parashat Vayechi  "Jacob planned his own funeral??" 
🖱Click here to register.
Message from Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell
Lech L’cha 5785/ 2024
The Human Being is Called a Walker
As Rabbi Scheim taught us over Rosh Hashana (quoting R. Jacob Schachter), the Jewish story is one that can be encapsulated by the two Torah verses we recite during the Torah service that are surrounded by the Hebrew letter nun, inverted (Num. 10:35-36)
 וַיְהִי בִּנְסֹעַ הָאָרֹן וַיֹּאמֶר מֹשֶׁה קוּמָה  ה׳ וְיָפֻצוּ אֹיְבֶיךָ וְיָנֻסוּ מְשַׂנְאֶיךָ מִפָּנֶיךָ׃
When the Ark was to set out, Moses would say:
Advance, O YHVH! May Your enemies be scattered, And may Your foes flee before You!
וּבְנֻחֹה יֹאמַר שׁוּבָה ה׳ רִבְבוֹת אַלְפֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל׃ 
And when it rested, he would say:
Return, O YHVH, You who are Israel’s myriads of thousands!
The first verse reflects a reality of movement and challenge, and the second reflects an experience of rest and return. As Jews and human beings both are part of our experience to varying degrees. In this week’s parasha, Lech Lecha, we shine a light on the experience of movement and journey as being at the core of the Jewish story. At the beginning of Lech Lecha, Avraham (then called Avram) is called by God to leave all that he knew and to journey forth to an unknown land (Gen. 12:1)
וַיֹּאמֶר ה׳ אֶל־אַבְרָם לֶךְ־לְךָ מֵאַרְצְךָ וּמִמּוֹלַדְתְּךָ וּמִבֵּית אָבִיךָ אֶל־הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר אַרְאֶךָּ׃
YHVH said to Avram, “Go forth from your native land and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you.
Sometimes in life we are called upon to move forward– sometimes this is by choice and at other times it is thrust upon us.  The Hasidic master, the Sefat Emet ,saw this as being at the core of the human experience: 
שהאדם נקרא מהלך שצריך תמיד לילך ממדרגה למדרגה כי ההרגל נעשה טבע. והטבע משכח ומסתיר פנימיות החיות ואפילו בתורה ומצות אם נעשין הרגל נעשה טבע, ושוכח הפנימיות. 
…וזה שכתוב ’לך לך’ לעולם צריך להיות מהלך ’אל אשר אראך’ תמיד השגה חדשה.  לכן נקרא האדם מהלך שכל שעומד בלי התחדשות, מיד הטבע שולטת בו….
The human being is called a “walker”, always having to go from one level to another, for habit becomes as [second] nature, and this sense of “nature” makes one forget and hides one’s inner life-force.  This is true even of Torah and the mitzvot:  when we do them out of habit, they become [second] nature and we forget their inward power (Lech Lecha, 1903)
To the Sefat Emet, we humans are fundamentally walkers, always moving forward. This movement is important as it helps us to not be weighed down by the power of habit, which keeps us from being connected to an inner power (penimiyut). The Sefat Emet understands that this inner power is always present, but is too often hidden underneath layers of habit. 
As we also connect with the quality of menucha, rest, every shabbat–and reflect on the ways in which we may feel “at rest” here in Toronto, and more broadly in our lives, so too may we embrace this time of lech lecha as an opportunity to affirm our identities as “walkers”, always moving forth courageously. 
 
Shabbat Shalom, 
Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell
We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.
Saturday, November 09 • 8 Heshvan
Jennie Beber,
Friend of Beth David
Paula Nemer Kates,
Mother of Howard Kates
Dora Nurgitz,
Grandmother of Richard Nurgitz
Sam Orlan,
Father of Rosie Shelson
Jack Stein,
Father of Lisa Levine
Abraham Willer,
Brother of Anne Sokoloff
 
Sunday, November 10 • 9 Heshvan
Irving Bain,
Grandfather of Jodi Kaiman
Beatrice Elkind,
Mother-in-law of Hennie Elkind
Ike Golosky,
Father-in-law of Rebecca Golosky
Manuel Greenblatt,
Father of Irwin Greenblatt
Samuel Isenberg,
Friend of Beth David
Philip Harvey Schwartz,
Brother of Sheila Mogul
Irving Silverstein,
Father of Alan Silverstein
 
Monday, November 11 • 10 Heshvan
Jerry Diamond,
Father of Elaine Simkevitz
Stephen Futerman,
Son of Brian Risman
Harold Gordon,
Father of Andrew Gordon
Irving Murray Noble,
Brother of Jack Noble
Lillian Waxman,
Sister of Ruth Silver and Aunt of Sondra Mendlowitz
 
Tuesday, November 12 • 11 Heshvan
Max Funger,
Great Uncle of Joseph Pollock
Morris Gertner,
Father of Fay Ganz
Enid Muchnik,
Friend of Beth David
Sandra Weinberger,
Sister of Ava Cross
Cesia Wolfowich,
Friend of Beth David
 
Wednesday, November 13 • 12 Heshvan
Norma Bain,
Grandmother of Jodi Kaiman and Aunt of Faye Major
Bernice Bernstein,
Grandmother of Alan Bernstein
Rose Friedman,
Mother of Lorraine Levene
Sonia Garber,
Mother of Joe Garber
Goldie Horenfeldt,
Mother-In-Law of Grace Horenfeldt
Rabbi Mordechai (Max) Maser,
Grandfather of Janice Maser
Molly Rosenberg,
Mother-in-law of Irving Foreman
 
Thursday, November 14 • 13 Heshvan
Sylvia Baker,
Sister of Samuel Kleinberg
Morris Korn,
Father of Sheryl Korn
Sydney Lanys,
Friend of Beth David
Charles Joseph Naiman,
Grandfather of Beth Karstadt
Lawrence Shessel,
Friend of Beth David
Tema Simlewitz,
Grandmother of Mimi Birbrager, Lee Birbrager and Chaim Birbrager
 
Friday, November 15 • 14 Heshvan
William Hennick,
Father-In-Law of Samuel Kleinberg
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11/01/2024 11:31:39 AM

Nov1

FALL BACK!

Daylight savings time ends at 2am on Sunday, November 3, 2024.

Remember to turn your clocks back 1 hour this weekend!

This Shabbat Shalom is sponsored by

Shelli & Joey Pollock and Jeffrey & Lorette Rosin in honour of the birth of their grandson

and by 

Genia Godelewicz in memory of her mother Malka Bornstein and her father Hirsch Bornstein

November 2, 2024

Shabbat Rosh Hodesh

1 Heshvan 5785

Rosh Hodesh Heshvan began the evening of Thursday, October 31 and ends the  evening of Saturday, November 2, 2024 .

SHABBAT SERVICES 

(November 1 & 2)

Friday Kabbalat Shabbat.....5:30PM
Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...5:30PM

WEEKDAY SERVICES

(November 3 to 8)

Sunday Morning...8:30AM

Monday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM

Sunday to Thursday Evenings...7:00PM

Shabbat & Weekday LIVESTREAM

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🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 5:49PM

 Shabbat Ends: 6:48PM 🕯

 PARASHAT NOAH

Torah: Genesis 11:1-11:32  (p. 31)
Maftir:  Numbers 28:9-28:15  | Shabbat Rosh Hodesh  (p.  930)
Haftarah: Isaiah 66:1-24 | Shabbat Rosh Hodesh  (p. 1220)

Kiddush is sponsored by Jozef Cipin & Brenda Kane-Cipin in honour of their great-grandson Moshe Aryeh Kaufman becoming Bar Mitzvah

Message from Rabbi Philip Scheim

The episode of the Tower of Babel and the confounding of human speech that emerges as punishment is read not long after we recited the “Al Heyt” confessional on Yom Kippur, which fixates largely upon sins of speech, ever frequent in these turbulent times.

Often of late I have witnessed funeral speakers eulogizing family members or friends, spicing up their remarks with expletives that would have been beeped out by broadcast networks. And social media platforms spew hatred far and wide, as comment sections on media websites wreak violence of human discourse. Is there any chance that the “Al Heyts” we so earnestly recited so recently will penetrate, and cause us to think twice before vulgarities and hatred penetrate our verbal expression?

Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk was reputed to have said that “not every thought should be said, not everything said should be written down and not everything written should be published.” Spontaneity in speech and lack of careful consideration of written words can diminish the quality and the effectiveness of human communication. The immediacy of electronic communication tends to rush our words without the deliberation and consideration that would be less harmful to relationships. In the vanishing world of snail mail, when writing a critical or an angry letter, common advice was to hold on to the letter for twenty-four hours, then reread it and decide whether or not you really wanted to send it. My latest smartphone software upgrade includes a welcome new feature, allowing for emails or text messages to be sent later, enabling that rethinking possibility, when anger may have begun to subside. Hurt feelings and worse, often result from writing or responding too quickly, without time to reassess and reconsider.

Perhaps the words of Kohelet, also recently read during Sukkot, would help here: “There is a time to be silent, and a time to speak.” To say of another, “S/he has no filter,” should not be taken as a complement. Sometimes not speaking is the preferred course.

Our Torah reading, human history, political election campaigns all remind us of the difficulties that words, language and tone, represent. It is our challenge, our responsibility, and maybe even our mission to remember how much we can achieve by choosing our words well, ensuring that they reflect the best that we have to offer. Through that effort, others may be more likely to listen to us.

Rabbi Philip Scheim

We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.

Saturday, November 02 • 1 Heshvan

Roy Babbin,

Father of Jerry Babbin

Albert Gertzbein,

Uncle of Ruth Cappel

Frances Klaiman,

Mother of Howard Klaiman

Morris Rottenberg,

Father of Robert Rottenberg

Rebecca Samson,

Mother of Solomon Samson and Grandmother of Fleur Samson

Benjamin Shelson,

Friend of Beth David

Joseph Shore,

Brother of Ray Hoffman

Louis Tator,

Grandfather of Marla Levant-Bornstein

Helen Winters,

Mother of Debra York

 

Sunday, November 03 •  2 Heshvan

Masha Haniford,

Grandmother of Allan Haniford

Gordon Hayward,

Husband of Sandra Hayward

Helen Shiff,

Mother of Jeffrey Shiff

 

Monday, November 04 •3 Heshvan

Bess Lome Agulnik,

Aunt of Arnold Agulnik

Morris Feldman,

Husband of Delores Feldman and Father of Pamela Feldman-Cukier

Peter Joseph,

Father of Sam Joseph

Shaindel Luft,

Friend of Beth David

Zalman Luft,

Friend of Beth David

Abraham Schwartz,

Grandfather of Ellen Babbin

  

Tuesday, November 05 • 4 Heshvan

Yetta Bornstein,

Mother of Sheldon Bornstein

Bernie Goldberg,

Uncle of Cheryl Kalpin

Wolf Gordon,

Father of Carl Gordon

David Kleinberg,

Brother of Samuel Kleinberg

Chaya Faiga Miller Witenoff,

Grandmother of Joseph Pollock

Morris Schwartz,

Father of Shay Schwartz

Lillian Silver,

Mother of Roslyn Kotkovski

Anne Wolfe,

Sister of Irving Wolfe

  

Wednesday, November 06 •  5 Heshvan

Hirsch Bornstein,

Father of Genia Grossman

Chaya Cohen,

Mother of David Cohen

Israel Gelbard,

Friend of Beth David

Rivka Klaiman, Chaya Klaiman, David Klaiman, Eliezer Klaiman, Joseph Klaiman, Manish Klaiman,

Friend of Beth David

Norman Loomer,

Father of Claire Pizer

Harry Modlinsky,

Father of Nelson Modlin

Ada Pernica,

Mother of Sheila Kornblum

Raymonde Schroeder,

Sister of Berthe Morris

Saul Weinrieb,

Father of Steven Weinrieb

Leslie Wise,

Father of Rochelle Pollock

  

Thursday, November 07 • 6 Heshvan

Lillian Freedman,

Sister of Grace Horenfeldt

Louis Langer,

Grandfather of Richard Langer

Sadie Modlinsky,

Sister of Nelson Modlin

Gene Opler,

Father of Michael Opler

Max Pelcowitz,

Father of Robert Pelcowitz

Rose Schwartz,

Grandmother of Ellen Babbin

Solomon Shulman,

Father-In-Law of Bertram Shinwell

David Weinrib,

Friend of Beth David

 

Friday, November 08 • 7 Heshvan

Annie Levine,

Grandmother of Elaine Bisgould

Morris Levine,

Father-In-Law of Lorraine Levene

Harry Moses Lightman,

Father of Floyd Lightman

Pearl Marcus,

Friend of Beth David

Simhat Torah Kiddush was co-sponsored by Beth David, Baila & Marvyn Lubek, Rosalie & Avram Selick, Esther & Allan Bortnick, Ava Cross, Janice Maser, Mike Cohen, Elaine Simkevitz and Libby & Igor Ellyn in honour of Leonard & Celia Golberg as our Hatan & Kallat Torah and Rosalie & Avram Selick as our Kallat & Hatan Breishit

BREAKFAST SPONSORS 

Friday, November 1
Breakfast is sponsored by Lorraine & Allan Sheps in memory of Lorraine's mother Tillie Lubek     

MINYAN SPONSORS 

Wednesday, November 6  
Morning minyan is sponsored by Sheila & Jake Kornblum in memory of Sheila's mother Ada Pernica    

10/29/2024 12:34:05 PM

Oct29

🕯️🕯️ Candlelighting Wednesday, October 23 at 6:02 pm
🕯️🕯️ Candlelighting Thursday, October 24 at 7:01 pm

October 24 & 25, 2024

 22 & 23 Tishrei 5785

Shabbat/Weekday Livestream link: https://livemedia.biz/BethDavid.html

Shemini Atzeret

Torah: Deuteronomy 14:22-16:17 (p.1074)
Maftir: Numbers 29:35-30:1 (p. 936)
Haftarah: I Kings 8:54-66 (p.1263)

Wednesday, October 23 Hoshanah Rabah/Erev Shemini Atzeret
Evening Service at 5:45 pm

Thursday, October 24 Shemini Atzeret-Yizkor-Plaque Dedication
Morning Service at 9:00 am

Simhat Torah

 

Torah: Deuteronomy 33:1-34:12 (p. 1202);  Genesis 1:1-2:3 (p. 3)
Maftir: Numbers 29:35-30:1 (p. 936)
Haftarah: Joshua 1:1-18 (p. 1266)

Thursday, October 24 Erev Simhat Torah - Hakafot🚩
Evening Service at 6:15 pm

🍧🍦🍨 FOOD!  MAKE YOUR OWN SUNDAE!  QUIZZES!🍧🍦🍨
Enjoy celebrations with our ShinShinyot, Noya & Hila

Friday, October 25 Simhat Torah - Hakafot
Morning Service at 9:00 am

TORAH READING STATIONS
We encourage you to experience your own Aliyah at one of our 3 lay-led reading stations.

Honouring our Hatan & Kallat Torah and Kallat & Hatan Breishit

Kiddush is co-sponsored by Beth David, Baila & Marvyn Lubek, Rosalie & Avram Selick and Janice Maser in honour of Leonard & Celia Golberg as our Hatan & Kallat Torah and Rosalie & Avram Selick as our Kallat & Hatan Breishit

Evening Services/Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45 pm

 Message from Michael Rubin

A time for mourning and a time for dancing; 

עֵ֥ת סְפ֖וֹד   וְעֵ֥ת רְקֽוֹד׃

Dancing Through Tears

The above title is the theme and message of a wonderful endeavour – The Simchat Torah Project – involving hundreds of Jewish Communities around the world and in which our own Beth David is participating. As the creators of this, Mizrachi, explain:

October 7th, 2024, was Simchat Torah in Israel. Over 1200 people were murdered and hundreds more were taken hostage. This October will mark the first Simchat Torah since those horrific events.

Simchat Torah is a day of joy, celebration, and hakafot - we dance – but Simchat Torah 5785 will also mark the first yahrzeit of the 1200 victims of October 7th. How do we, the Jewish people, respond? On Simchat Torah, will we dance? Should we dance? How do we commemorate this poignant and difficult anniversary?

King Solomon offers us guidance in Kohelet, which we will read on Sukkot, “There is a time for everything under the Heavens…. a time to mourn and a time to dance.” This Simchat Torah, with tears in our eyes, we will dance. Synagogues around the world will open their Aron HaKodesh on Simchat Torah night and take out several Torah scrolls. One, will be adorned with a new me’il (Torah cover), designed to mark the first yahrzeit of October 7th. This me’il will be identical to the ones which will be created for 1600 synagogues across the world. This beautifully designed me’il will proclaim that this Torah is dedicated in memory of the 1200 souls and the many soldiers and hostages who have since died.

Each Torah me'il will feature the name of one of the kedoshim embroidered onto it. Communities around the world will dance with these Torah scrolls – with hundreds of thousands of Jews being connected through this project. The Jewish world will be unified, knowing that across the globe, Jews are dancing with Torah scrolls that collectively link us all with the events of October 7th, and inspire us to realize that “Am Yisrael Chai.”

Synagogues will encourage their members to come and dance with the newly robed scroll, to remember the fallen, by holding their Torah high, so that they can say: “We will not forget what happened on Simchat Torah last year, but we are determined to dispel the darkness with light.” This project will symbolize the Jewish People’s resilience, our ability to find hope in the face of tragedy.

We are grateful for the generous support of Janet and Jay Harris for sponsoring our participation in this beautiful project of solidarity.

Please join us on Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah as we demonstrate our commitment to honouring those so ruthlessly taken from us on October 7 and our determination to express our pride in Jewish life and continuity.

In addition, we have been supporting Kibbutz Kissufim directly and are helping them write a Sefer Torah in memory of Sa’ar Margolis, a kibbutz member killed on October 7 during his efforts to save members of the kibbutz from the Hamas assault. They will also be dedicating that Sefer Torah in the coming days. We are grateful to all those who have generously donated to the BD Israel Emergency Fund over the past year for this purpose and the support of other organizations in Israel such as Friends of S’derot and the Schechter Institute in Jerusalem.

Hag Samei’akh and looking forward to dancing with all of you!

Michael Rubin

This Shabbat Shalom is sponsored by Allan & Esther Bortnick in memory of Allan's father Louis Bortnick and Esther's father Joseph Goldfluss

🕯️🕯️Candlelighting Fri. Oct 25 at 5:59 pm

Shabbat Ends Sat. Oct 26 at 6:58 pm🕯️ 

October 26, 2024

Shabbat Mevarchim

 24 Tishrei 5785

Rosh Hodesh Heshvan begins the evening of Thursday, October 31 and ends the evening of Saturday November 2, 2024.

✡ מזל טוב ✡

Mazal Tov to Michelle & Aaron Chesley on the naming of their daughter.

Parashat Bereshit

Torah: Genesis 5:1-6:8 (p. 30)
Maftir: Genesis 6:5-6:8 (p. 34)
Haftarah: Isaiah 42:5-43:10 (p. 36)

Friday, October 25 
Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45 pm

Saturday, October 26 
Morning Service at 9:00 am

Kiddush this morning is sponsored by Rita & Carey Drutz in honour of the naming of their newest granddaughter, Sylvia Starr Chesley. Proud 1st time parents are
Michelle (Drutz) Chesley and Aaron Chesley, and Mazel Tov to Nana Marsha Chesley

Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah at 5:30 pm

We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.

Saturday, October 26 • 24 Tishrei

Magdolna Daniel,

Mother of Frank Daniel

Samuel Galet,

Father of Manya Gilbert

Manuel Mayers,

Father of Deborah Nirenberg and Harvey Mayers

Moe Pancer,

Friend of Beth David

Bernice Pasternac,

Mother of Esther Lieberman

Pearl Pearl,

Grandmother of Alden Pearl

Bennie Witkin,

Uncle of Joyce Gordon

 

Sunday, October 27 • 25 Tishrei

Arnold Bensky,

Uncle of Gary Bensky

Belle Feldman,

Mother of Marty Feldman

Herbert Pascoe,

Father of Andrew Pascoe

Mannie Posner,

Father of Sharon Paskowitz

Ann Resnick,

Aunt of David Goldberg

 

Monday, October 28 • 26 Tishrei

Louis Bortnick,

Father of Allan Bortnick

Morris Cappel,

Father-in-law of Ruth Cappel

Louis (Scottie) Freedman,

Friend of Beth David

Bernard Kurtz,

Friend of Beth David

Ernie Risman,

Father of Andrew Risman

Tibel Steinberg,

Mother-in-law of Alan Federman

 

Tuesday, October 29 • 27 Tishrei

Shirley Gladstone,

Friend of Beth David

Joseph Goldfluss,

Father of Esther Bortnick

Gordon Murray,

Friend of Beth David

Molly Sherman,

Mother of Doreen Bornfreund

Ruth Stein,

Mother of Brian Stein

Harry Waldman,

Father of Francine Feder

Louis Wronzberg,

Father of Richard Wronzberg

  

Wednesday, October 30 • 28 Tishrei

Michael Budlovsky,

Father of Daniel Budlovsky

Annie Peres,

Beloved of Paula Sonshine

Shragah Phyvle Rosensweig,

Friend of Beth David

Fanny Weinberg,

Mother of Allen Weinberg

Sandor Weinstock,

Uncle of Vivian Weinstock

Joseph Weinstock,

Uncle of Vivian Weinstock

Issi Yablo,

Friend of Beth David

 

Thursday, October 31 • 29 Tishrei

Basia Bielak,

Friend of Beth David

Messod Dadoun,

Father of Morris Dadoun

Ruth Daniels,

Grandmother of Doron Daniels

David Elkind,

Father of Randi Elkind

Jack Fuller,

Father of Ken Fuller

Joseph Goldmintz,

Friend of Beth David

Catherine (Kato) Matyas,

Mother of Hedy Matyas

Yosef David Minuk,

Father of Miriam Telem

Anthony Pruskin,

Husband of Nancy Pruskin and Father of Zane Pruskin

Sheldon Reinsilber,

Friend of Beth David

Hannah Silverstein,

Wife of Alan Silverstein

Mendel Yankoo,

Father-in-law of Joe Hoffman

 

Friday, November 01 • 30 Tishrei 5775

Molly Franklin,

Friend of Beth David

Tillie Lubek,

Mother of Lorraine Sheps

Jacqueline Rotblott,

Mother of Sheri Goldberg

09/19/2024 07:43:57 PM

Sep19

This issue of the Shabbat Shalom is sponsored,
In loving memory of Sidney Feld on his 45th yahrzeit by his children Lisa,
Randy and Joanne and his granddaughter Sidney Hacker
&
By Ruth Shapiro in honour of her grandson Natan Chelsky son of
Steven & Rebecca Chelsky becoming Bar Mitzvah in Israel
&
By Karen Bernstein & Ian Hendry and Bill & Jodi Bernstein and families
in memory of their great aunt Bea Dunn and their great uncle Joe Dunn

September 21, 2024

18 Elul 5784

SHABBAT SERVICES 

(September 20 & 21))

Friday Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00PM
Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...6:30PM

WEEKDAY SERVICES

(September 22 to 27)

Sunday Morning...8:30AM

Monday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM

Sunday to Thursday Evenings...7:00PM

Shabbat & Weekday LIVESTREAM

https://livemedia.biz/BethDavid.html

Selihot: Sunday, September 29 at 8:30 AM

🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 6:59PM

 Shabbat Ends: 7:59PM 🕯

 PARASHAT KI TAVO

Torah: Deuteronomy 26:12-28:6 (p. 1142)
Maftir: Deuteronomy 28:4-28:6 (p. 1149)
Haftarah: Isaiah 60:1-22 (p. 1161)

✡ מזל טוב ✡

Mazal Tov to Romi Udell and Zain Udell and their family on becoming
B'nai Mitzvah this morning.

Message from Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell

Ki Tavo 5784
Moonlight
Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell

כ לֹא יָבוֹא עוֹד שִׁמְשֵׁךְ וִירֵחֵךְ לֹא יֵאָסֵף כִּי ה׳ יִהְיֶה לָּךְ לְאוֹר עוֹלָם

;Your sun shall set no more, your moon no more withdraw
.For YHVH will be a light to you forever

Isaiah 60:20 (haftarah for Ki Tavo)- 

The other night, while walking to my car in the late evening, I raised my eyes to the night sky. I froze as I was struck by the light of the moon shining down with an intense brightness-- a brightness that was in stark contrast to the surrounding ink-black sky.  

And as I gazed at the moon, I was moved by the realization that all of the light that I was seeing was in fact coming from the sun.

There is an important distinction to be made between the sun and moon. The sun is an always shining, powerful source of light. The moon has no light of its own, but reflects the light of the sun. This is a distinction that our tradition is interested in as well, with many sources exploring the differences between the sun and moon (see, for example, Zohar 1:238a and Likutei Moharan 1:2)  

There are different ways to bring light into the world. We may believe that in order to illuminate the world we must be sun-like, generating light all of the time. However, we must not underestimate the importance of being moon-like, reflecting the light of the Divine back into the world around us.  

This week’s haftarah from Isaiah (60:1–22), the sixth of seven haftarot of comfort linking Tisha B’Av to Rosh Hashanah affirms that, indeed, at this time we are called upon to bring light into the world--not our own sunlight, rather we are called to be moon-like, reflecting a greater light into the world. In language that is also quoted in Lecha Dodi, Isaiah teaches:

:א קוּמִי אוֹרִי כִּי־בָא אוֹרֵךְ וּכְבוֹד ה׳ עָלַיִךְ זָרָח: ב כִּי־הִנֵּה הַחֹשֶׁךְ יְכַסֶּה־אֶרֶץ וַעֲרָפֶל לְאֻמִּים וְעָלַיִךְ יִזְרַח ה׳ וּכְבוֹדוֹ עָלַיִךְ יֵרָאֶה

1 Arise, shine, for your light has dawned;
The Presence of YHVH has shone upon you!
2 Behold! Darkness shall cover the earth,
And thick clouds the peoples;
But upon you YHVH will shine,
And the Divine Presence be seen over you.

Isaiah urges us to believe in our own light (אוֹרֵךְ/oreich/your light) and to feel empowered by its existence– but, to also understand that source of the light is in fact the Divine Presence shining upon us. Like the moon in the night’s sky, Isaiah speaks of a time of darkness through which God’s light is reflected upon us. 

During this month of Elul, as we strive for clarity about who we are and who we want to be, we are encouraged to redouble our efforts to bring light into dark places. This is perhaps needed now more than ever this year following the horrors of Oct. 7 and its aftermath. In this context, we can still seek out the good, and are invited to be moon-like, reflecting the Divine light into the world. Instead of the overwhelming and exhausting prospect of always generating the light ourselves, we can focus on reflecting and magnifying the light that is already present, even if hidden.  

How do we reflect the Divine light that is already present into the world? Being moon-like is about actively affirming and magnifying the goodness and Godliness of each person. We can reflect the Divine light that shines forth from each face and from each heart. When we smile at others, or thank others, and when we acknowledge the good that others do, we are receiving their light and shining it forth. We don’t need to produce this light --for it is already there-- but simply to shine it outwards like a polished mirror.

Being moon-like supports the thriving and joy of others.  What a powerful message that our tradition offers through evoking this moon-like orientation as we near Rosh Hashanah.  

Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Jordan Bendat-Appell

We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.

Saturday, September 21 • 18 Elul
Alvin Abram,
Husband of Marilyn Abram and Father of Lori Brown
Bea Dunn,
Great-Aunt of Karen Bernstein
Dave Samuels,
Uncle of Lynne Lurie
David Buchstein,
Father of Miriam Devon
Fanny Solish,
Grandmother of Sharyl Solish and Elaine Solish
Joe Dunn,
Great-Uncle of Karen Bernstein
Julius Wise,
Husband of Honey Wise
Malka Leah Schneider,
Grandmother of Terry Gordon
Matthew Panzer,
Son of Kathy and Danny Panzer and Brother of Jessica Panzer
Merle Biederman,
Sister of Eleanor Schimmer
Sam Klaiman,
Father of Howard Klaiman
 
Sunday, September 22 • 19 Elul
David Polansky,
Friend of Beth David
Evelyn Avruskin,
Friend of Beth David
Lillian Rose,
Mother of Marlyne Abramson
Louis Goodman,
Father of Donna Wolfe
Louis Haniford,
Uncle of Sharon Haniford
Mollie Rothman,
Aunt of Esther Lieberman
Sylvia Greenspan,
Mother of Saul Greenspan
 
Monday, September 23 • 20 Elul
Arnold Goldhar,
Father of Marty Goldhar
Arthur Feuer,
Uncle of Mindy Ganz and Howard Ganz
Bessie Tepperman,
Mother of Susan Halpern
Brendl Einhorn,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Chaya Bitterman,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Fridel (Asher Zalke) Bitterman,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Gary Eddie Pernica,
Brother of Sheila Kornblum
Gittel Bitterman,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Jack Freedland,
Father of Gloria Agasee
Leah (Ya'akov & Brendl) Einhorn,
Cousin of Harvey Bitterman
Liba Yehudit (Ya'akov & Brendl) Einhorn,
Cousin of Harvey Bitterman
Matilda Solomon,
Mother of Ann Samson and Grandmother of Fleur Samson
Molly Frankel,
Friend of Beth David
Molly Shelson,
Friend of Beth David
Moshe Aharon (Avraham & Rachel) Bitterman,
Cousin of Harvey Bitterman
Nachum Bitterman,
Uncle of Harvey Bitterman
Rachel (Avraham Simcha) Bitterman,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Sarah Bitterman,
Aunt of Harvey Bitterman
Shifra Bitterman,
Grandmother of Harvey Bitterman
Sidney Feld,
Father of Lisa Feld
Terrance Hayward,
Brother in law of Sandra Hayward
Wolf (Asher Zalke & Fridel) Bitterman,
Cousin of Harvey Bitterman
Ya'akov Einhorn,
Uncle of Harvey Bitterman
Yehudit (Avraham & Simcha) Bitterman,
Cousin of Harvey Bitterman
 
Tuesday, September 24 • 21 Elul
Cantor Morris Goldlust,
Friend of Beth David
Ida Rotstein,
Mother of Frances Temple
Jack Altman,
Father of Sandra Sigal
Julius Steiner,
Father of Cecile Myerson
Maurice Cicurel,
Uncle of Etty Alami
Milton Book,
Father of Allan Book
Morris Swartz,
Father of Doris Applebaum
Myra Shinwell,
Wife of Bertram Shinwell and Mother of Joanne Shinwell
Sam Bloom,
Father of Molly Bloom
Wilfred Schwartz,
Father of Mendl Schwartz
 
Wednesday, September 25 • 22 Elul
David Bloom,
Husband of Molly Bloom and Father of Michael Bloom
Dinah Meslin,
Mother-in-law of Stanley Goldfarb
Dolly Lipman,
wife of Arthur Kates
Dora Altshuller,
Mother of Ann Shour and Grandmother of April Laufer
Harry Finkelstein,
Friend of Beth David
Hilda Mandel,
Mother of Sharon Fuller
Ibrahim Saber,
Father of Jacqueline Saber
Kalman Burstyn,
Father of Hermi Spears
Lil Kopel,
Mother-In-Law of Lynn Stone
Max Hoffman,
Father of Joe Hoffman
Morris Levine,
Grandfather of Carol Manilla
Sydney Shapiro,
Father of Marilyn Shapiro
 
Thursday, September 26 • 23 Elul 5767
Alison Davison,
Sister of Barry Smith
Hymie Feldman,
Father of Gary Feldman
Judith Ingroff,
Sister of Estelle Shane
Reuben Cipin,
Father of Jennifer Tugg and Marla Dan
Ruth Dalfen,
Aunt of Stephanie Caplan
Saul Mintz,
Father of Rhonda Strasberg
Steven Jay Rittenberg,
Friend of Beth David
 
Friday, September 27 • 24 Elul 5709
Bessie Starkman,
Mother of Doreen Strom
Chaya Grina Tenenbaum,
Grandmother of Linda Ennis
Ephraim Pick,
Father of Janice Pick
Evelyn Streicher,
Mother of Rhonda Schlanger
Helen Risman,
Friend of Beth David
Morris Silver,
Husband of Ruth Silver and Father of Sondra Mendlowitz
Sarah Grimson,
Friend of Beth David

Children will have the opportunity to meet & engage with our new Shinshinyot, Hila and Noya during some fun after-dinner activities. Click HERE or on image to register.

DEADLINE to register for the dinner is MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 23, 2024
bethdavid.com or call 416-633-5500

Get ready for the High Holy Days with a brief Selihot service just before the morning service on Sunday, September 29. Repentant breakfast following.

Weekly D'var Torah  Your Time!  Your Way!  Learning for You!! 

 This week's Parsha Ki Tavo:
Hadar:
Jewish Theological Seminary (JTS):
My Jewish Learning (MJL):
🧒🏻Hadar’s Weekly Parashah Magazine for Children & Families🧒🏻

BREAKFAST SPONSORS

Monday, September 23
In loving memory of Sidney Feld on his 45th yahrzeit by his children Lisa, Randy and Joanne and his granddaughter Sidney Hacker
&
Harvey Bitterman in memory of the majority of his father's family who perished in the Shoah

Thursday, September 26
Heather & Michael Goldberg in honour of the upcoming marriage of Grant Goldberg to Aviva McLeod-Engelhard

MINYAN SPONSORS

Monday, September 23 morning minyan
Sheila & Jake Kornblum in memory of Sheila's brother Gary Eddie Pernica

Friday, September 27 morning minyan
Janice Pick in memory of her father Ephraim Pick on his 10th yahrzeit

Membership Renewal

We thank those that have renewed their 2024/25 membership.
If you have not yet renewed, time is running out!
Click here to renew your place in the Beth David community!

Tickets

High Holy Day Tickets have been mailed out to members who renewed their membership by Sunday, September 15.
Members who renewed after this date can pick up tickets from the office beginning Monday, September 23 until October 1. After this time, tickets will be available for pick-up at the door during High Holy Day services. 

!Participate in Our High Holy Day Services!

The following opportunities are available:
Read Torah • Open the Ark • Carry the TorahHagbah or Gelilah • Take an Aliyah
Contact Faye 437-770-2302

SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES

 Click online here or contact Faye at 437-770-2302

To be included in the Shabbat Shalom, sponsorship requests must be received by Tuesday at noon of the week before the sponsorship date.
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Dedicate a Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Book   $90
Shabbat morning Kiddush  $450 | Seudah Shlisheet  $350 | Weekday Breakfast $200

Weekday Afternoon/Evening Minyan  $36 Saturday Evening Havdallah  $36
      Weekday Morning Minyan  $54 | Friday Afternoon Kabbalat Shabbat  $100 
Shabbat Shalom newsletter  $100 | Events & Opportunities newsletter  $100
Shabbat morning Livestream Service  $100 | Clergy Classes $100 for per session

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Effective November 1, 2024, the price for breakfast will increase to $250, for
Seudah Shlisheet to 
$400, and for Shabbat morning kiddush to $500.00.

Book a sponsorship now for after November 1 and pay the current rate

CONTACT THE SHUL

Staff

Ian Borer, Executive Director
416-633-5500 ext. 22  ian@bethdavid.com  
Faye Major, Administrator
416-633-5500 ext. 0 (office) or 437-770-2302 (mobile)   faye@bethdavid.com
Rebecca Joffe, Program and Communications Manager
647-632-9156    rebecca@bethdavid.com
Helene Jacobs, Administrator
437-770-2756   helene@bethdavid.com
Jeev Logan, Finance Manager
437-771-1606   jeev@bethdavid.com
Thanuja Perera, Bookkeeper
thanuja@bethdavid.com
Clergy
Philip S. Scheim, Rabbi Emeritus 
rabbischeim@bethdavid.com
Marshall Loomer, Rabbi Cantor
cantor@bethdavid.com
Jordan Bendat-Appell, Rabbi
rabbijordan@bethdavid.com
Michael Rubin Director of Engagement, Education & Ritual 
mrubin@bethdavid.com

08/30/2024 12:25:59 PM

Aug30

The synagogue office will be closed Monday, September 3 for Labour Day🍂

The August 24th Shabbat Shalom was sponsored by
Ronnie & Marsha Klein in loving memory of Ronnie's mother Phyllis Klein
on her 44th yahrzeit
&
Jacob & Mindy Galper and family in loving memory of Jacob's father Abe Galper

Aug 31, 2024

Shabbat Mevarchim

27 Av 5784

Rosh Hodesh Elul begins the evening of Monday, September 2 and
ends the evening of Wednesday, September 4, 2024.

SHABBAT SERVICES 

(August 23 & 24)

Friday Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00PM
Shabbat Morning Services...9:00AM
Minhah-Seudah-Havdallah...7:15PM

WEEKDAY SERVICES

(August 25 to 30)

Sunday & Monday* Mornings...8:30AM *Labour Day
Tuesday to Friday Mornings...7:30AM
Sunday to Friday Evenings...7:00PM

Shabbat & Weekday LIVESTREAM

https://livemedia.biz/BethDavid.html

🚫 Beth David is a SCENT-FREE space

📵 Cell phone use is prohibited on Shabbat 

We welcome Sorele Urman
as our Guest Darshanit on Shabbat morning

PARASHAT RE'EH

Torah: Deuteronomy 12:29-14:29  (p. 1068)
Maftir: Deuteronomy 14:22-14:29  (p. 1074)
Haftarah: Isaiah 54:11-55:5  (p. 1085)

🕯🕯 Candlelighting: 7:37 PM

 Shabbat Ends:8:37 PM 🕯

Shabbat Sponsorships

Kabbalat Shabbat on August 23rd was sponsored by Robin Zionce-Garber &
Richard Garber in memory of Robin's mother Faye Zionce

Kiddush this morning is sponsored by
The Feffer family in loving memory of Rabbi Abraham Feffer
&
In honour of Larry Goldblatt's 90th birthday

Next Shabbat, August 31st, our Guest Darshan is Howard Simkevitz.

Message from The Jewish Theological Seminary

Re'eh - Balancing Peshat and Sensitivity  by :  Matthew Berkowitz Former Director of Israel Programs, JTS

Parashat Re’eh contains a categorical pronouncement against idolatry in the Land of Israel. Once the Israelites enter and dwell in the Promised Land, they are commanded to destroy the devotional sites of other nations: “You must destroy all the sites at which the nations you are to dispossess worshipped their gods, whether on lofty mountains and on hills or under any luxuriant tree. Tear down their altars, smash their pillars, put their sacred posts to the fire, and cut down the images of their gods, obliterating their name from that site” (Deut. 12:2–3). The law is clear cut—zero tolerance for the practices of other peoples in the Land; their ways will corrupt the People and lead them astray from the God of Israel. One need look no further than Israel’s journey through the wilderness (especially the episode of Ba’al Peor) or the book of Judges to understand the rationale behind this law. Clearly the Israelites are easily seduced by the idolatrous fetishes of their neighbors. Yet, how may we, as both loyal heirs to the biblical tradition and modern readers, understand this harsh pronouncement of Deuteronomy? Is a more nuanced interpretation possible?

Joseph ben Isaac B’khor Shor softens the blow of Torah’s legislation. Echoing the wisdom and discomfort of the rabbinic tradition, he explains that the law of Deuteronomy does not involve the utter and complete destruction of these devotional sites.

The verse refers to instruments used in the service of idolatrous practice. For it is impossible to destroy the sites. And it is understood that the land itself is not forbidden. Torah states it is the places where they worship their gods—the mountains do not belong to their gods. For if an idolater bows down to a mountain, the mountain does not become forbidden [to the Israelite]—and so too is the case with hills.

And more than that, he explains that the Land itself does not become tainted through these practices. While the B’khor Shor’s approach is a departure from the peshat, or literal sense, of Torah (which literally mandates “obliterating their name from that site”), he is also in the vein of Rabban Gamliel.

Mishnah Avodah Zarah 3:4 relates the story of Rabban Gamliel, who finds himself bathing in the presence of a statue of Aphrodite. When challenged by Proclus, a Roman, as to why he would be allowed to bathe in the presence of a Greek goddess, Rabban Gamliel responds brilliantly: “I came not within her limits, she came within mine! People do not say, ‘Let us build a bath as an adornment to Aphrodite’ but ‘Let us make a statue of Aphrodite as decoration for the bath’ . . . what is treated as a god is prohibited, but what is not treated as a god is permitted.” Since Rabban Gamliel was immersed in Hellenistic culture, he wisely recognized the need for accommodation. One could not be a purist as commanded by Deuteronomy 12:2–3. Such action would have cost Rabban Gamliel his life. In his wisdom, Rabban Gamliel softens the text of Deuteronomy, allowing Judaism to stop short of “obliterating their name.” Both the B’khor Shor and Rabban Gamliel teach us an important lesson in recognizing the life-affirming shades of grey in Torah. Far from demanding a black-and-white interpretation, we, the loyal readers of Torah, are challenged time and time again to read sensibly and sensitively.

Shabbat Shalom.

We remember with reverence and love those for whom Yahrzeit will be observed this week.

Saturday, August 31 • 27 Av
Allen Bernick,
Father of Mark Bernick
Robert Bernstein,
Father of Malcolm Bernstein
Abraham Feffer,
Husband of Beth Feffer and Father of Miriam Feffer
Charles Abraham Goldenberg,
Father of Bernice Bruman
Ernest Richard Pearl,
Uncle of Alden Pearl
 
Sunday, September 1 • 28 Av
Isadore Fine,
Brother of Marie Rubin
Gordon Ludzki,
Father of Avra Goldhar
 
Monday, September 2 • 29 Av
Anne Bagelman,
Mother of Jerry Bagelman
Lily Mandel,
Mother of Rebecca Golosky
 
Tuesday, September 3 • 30 Av
Ruthe Mann,
Sister-in-law of Geraldine Longert
Helen Pukerman,
Mother of Esther Rodzynek
Lillian Salsberg,
Mother of Tena Lexchin
 
Wednesday, September 4 • 1 Elul
Rebecca Bloom,
Mother-In-Law of Anna Bloom
Ann Gold,
Niece of Joyce Binstock
Leo Greenspan,
Father of Saul Greenspan
Gloria Klein,
Wife of Morris Klein
Billie Kornbloom,
Grandmother of Bonnie Marks
Rachel Lanbersky,
Mother of Penny Geffen
David Marks,
Husband of Helen Marks
Laura Schwartzbein,
Mother of David Schwartzbein
Libby Silver,
Mother-In-Law of Ruth Silver
Diane Sue Solursh,
Stepmother of Fern Haniford
Tova Starr,
Grandmother of Rita Drutz
 
Thursday, September 5 • 2 Elul
Jack Louis Greenfield,
Brother-in-law of Rosalind Greenfield
Sandra Lanys,
Wife of Michael Lanys
Norman Maser,
Father of Janice Maser
Nathan Nosov,
Father of Shelly Davine and Jody Weintraub
Herbert Oppenheimer,
Father of Harold Oppenheimer
Albert Shreiber,
Father-in-law of Arthur Kates
Dora Sobel,
Mother-In-Law of Doreen Sobel
 
Friday, September 6 • 3 Elul
Regina Buchman,
Mother-In-Law of Roma Buchman
Nathan Fine,
Father of Marie Rubin
Harry Goodman,
Step-father of Debra Giller
Louis Greenspan,
Grandfather of Larry Lexchin
Sylvia Weinrieb,
Mother of Steven Weinrieb

Your Time!  Your Way!  Learning for You!!

Weekly D’var Torah and resources from the Hadar Institute, the Jewish Theological Seminary (JTS) and My Jewish Learning (MJL)

This week's Parsha Re'eh:

Hadar:

JTS:

www.jtsa.edu/jts-torah-online

MJL:

www.myjewishlearning.com/torah-portions
www.myjewishlearning.com/the-hub/host/hey-alma

Weekday Minyanim 

BREAKFAST SPONSORS

Tuesday, September 3
In memory of Anne Bagelman, loved mother, in observance of her 7th yahrzeit dedicated by her children Jerry and Georgi Bagelman

Thursday, September 5
Michelle Markowitz & Brad Goldsmith in honour of their son Charlie's Bar Mitzvah aufruf

MINYAN SPONSORS

Monday, September 2 morning minyan
Rebecca Golosky in memory of her mother Lily Mandel

Special Shabbat coming soon!

Youth-led morning services & Youth-friendly Kiddush

📚WE ARE ASKING...
...those of you who borrowed a High Holy Day Mahzor and still have them in your homes, please return them to Beth David no later than September 15th.
Thanks for your anticipated co-operation.

SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITES

 Click online here or contact Faye at 437-770-2302

To be included in the Shabbat Shalom, sponsorship requests must be received by Tuesday at noon of the week before the sponsorship date.

Dedicate a Weekday Sim Shalom Prayer Book   $90
Shabbat morning Kiddush  $450 | Seudah Shlisheet  $350 | Weekday Breakfast $200

Weekday Afternoon/Evening Minyan  $36 Saturday Evening Havdallah  $36
      Weekday Morning Minyan  $54 | Friday Afternoon Kabbalat Shabbat  $100 
Shabbat Shalom newsletter  $100 | Events & Opportunities newsletter  $100
Shabbat morning Livestream Service  $100 | Clergy Classes $100 for per session

Effective November 1, 2024, the price for breakfast will increase to $250, the price for Seudah Shlisheet will increase to $400, and the price for Shabbat morning kiddush will increase to $500.00

CONTACT THE SHUL

Staff

Ian Borer, Executive Director
416-633-5500 ext. 22   ian@bethdavid.com  

Faye Major, Administrator
416-633-5500 ext. 0 (office) or 437-770-2302 (mobile)   faye@bethdavid.com

Rebecca Joffe, Program and Communications Manager
647-632-9156    rebecca@bethdavid.com

Helene Jacobs, Administrator
437-770-2756   helene@bethdavid.com

Jeev Logan, Finance Manager
437-771-1606   jeev@bethdavid.com

Thanuja Perera, Bookkeeper
thanuja@bethdavid.com

Clergy

Philip S. Scheim, Rabbi Emeritus 
rabbischeim@bethdavid.com

Marshall Loomer, Rabbi Cantor
cantor@bethdavid.com

Jordan Bendat-Appell, Rabbi
rabbijordan@bethdavid.com

Michael Rubin, Director of Engagement, Education & Ritual 
mrubin@bethdavid.com

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